Workshops + Trainings

Each month, The Dress Rehearsal offers a virtual workshop to support you on your journey to a thriving, shame-free, and confident sex life.

Maybe you never got sex ed. Maybe the sex ed you got was shame-based and fact-free. Maybe it’s been a while and you are a life-long learner! Whatever the case, I’ve got you.

Next Up…

To Queer: to take a tradition or practice and get creative with it in ways that match your expansive, authentic self.🌈❄️

Just as there isn’t one way to be queer, there isn’t one way to show up this time of year. In this virtual workshop, you’ll explore ways to queer it!

Sign up for individual workshops or all three!

  • Do you somehow turn into the 16 year-old version of yourself when you enter your biological family’s home for the holidays?

    Do you find yourself on New Year’s day drained of energy instead of rested?

    Do you prioritize everyone else’s needs during the holidays, sacrificing your wants, desires, and even identity in the process?

    Then this workshop is for you.

    In this 2 hour virtual workshop we will develop skills to identify and communicate boundaries that work for you, all while building approaches for self-compassion that will serve you this holiday season.

    Wednesday, November 13th at 6pm Eastern

    *This workshop is pay what you can*

    ou’ll receive your link to join us upon purchase.

    Recordings will be available until January 1st.

  • “Why do we do this again?, “ she whispered, as she made another ugly gingerbread house that was more stressful to make than holly. or jolly.

    Are you tired of holiday seasons that feel draining, filled with traditions you don't actually like and devoid of pleasure? This holiday season, that ends!  

    Just as there isn’t one way to be queer, there isn’t one way to show up this time of year. In this virtual workshop, you’ll explore ways to queer it! That is, take a tradition or practice and get creative with it in ways that match your expansive, authentic self.🌈❄️

    Whether it’s creating new traditions or adjusting old ones, you will leave with concrete ways to queer your holidays to feel the joy, rest, and ease you deserve.

    Sunday, November 17th at 5pm Eastern

    You’ll receive your link to join us upon purchase.

    Recordings will be available until January 1st.

  • By January 1st, most of us end up burnt out like a holiday lightbulb.  We’ve spent the season moving from one festive sweater to another, holiday party to holiday party, so busy we didn’t have time or space for all the things that bring us pleasure and rest. 

    Allow this virtual workshop to support you in finding the pleasure this December--from uninterrupted time reading by the fire to kissing under the mistletoe (to taking the dog for a walk for some GD peace and quiet).

    We'll explore ways to really tune into the sensual this season, make a plan to find pleasure even when time is short, and troubleshoot any pleasure grinches that get in the way.

    Monday December 2nd at 6pm Eastern.

    You’ll receive your link to join us upon purchase.

    Recordings will be available until January 1st.

Meet your facilitators for Queering Your Holidays!

  • A certified sexuality educator + coach and queer gal, Veronica has dedicated her career to disrupting the “shoulds” of sex and dating to make more space to get curious about what brings you pleasure and authentic joy.

    A slut for play and silliness, you’ll likely get Ms Frizzle vibes from this theater-kid turned educator. You might even find yourself saying, “hm. This isn’t so overwhelming anymore!”

  • Since 2019, Blair has been using their professional grade nosiness and insatiable curiosity for good as a mental health therapist. Driven by a desire to serve the queer and trans community and to make space to explore complex personal topics, their work is collaborative and inclusive by nature - you are more than the sum of your parts, and together we can envision what your holistic wellness means to you. Blair brings warmth and gentleness to sensitive topics, and doesn't believe anything is too small or too big for therapy - you might be surprised how comfortable you feel discussing your innermost feelings and fears!

Let’s Collaborate!

Want to bring The Dress Rehearsal to your group?

This series of virtual courses is the sex ed you should have gotten in high school! Replace the sack of flour or shame-based pictures of STIs with accurate information, pleasure, and a spirit of curiosity and wonder at our expansive + unique sexualities! Topics can be mixed and matched to meet your needs.

Topics to Choose From

Sexual Anatomy: The Clitoris does What?!

Growing Relationships That Nourish

Wait, I’m Allowed to Have Boundaries?

Consent: It’s More Than Permission!

How Do I… *gulp* Talk About It? Hard Conversations As Gifts

The Body, Pleasure, and You!

Something missing? Reach out for a tailor-made workshop to suit you or your group’s needs!