Does dating make your heart race but… not in the fun, flirty way? Does the idea of dinner and drinks fill you with dread? Maybe the notification sound from your dating app is the stuff of nightmares, or you find yourself constantly checking your messages like it’s your job. Perhaps you’ve decided to avoid it altogether.

You’re not alone.

For many queer folks living with anxiety, dating and its rigid scripts, heteronormative expectations, and interview-like conversations can be HARD. The pressure to “get it right” can be overwhelming. And, tbh, none of that is how that electric connection + deep, nourishing intimacy happen. You deserve better.

In fact, dating CAN be better.

What if we told you that it is possible for you to swipe on dating apps without feeling totally overwhelmed by choice and frozen by the pressure to make the "perfect" choice; to chat and flirt with that hottie without constantly doubting yourself; and, to actually enjoy the process of dating?

We’ve decided to create a space where you get to craft your personal dating approach rooted in who you are, what you value, and how you have fun. All the while, you’ll be learning some incredible anxiety coping skills amidst queer community.

Wanna go on a date - without having a panic attack?

Want to be able to have conversations filled with fun instead of the loud megaphone of your inner critic?

Crave the confidence to ask for what you desire, from the date’s first “hello” to the bedroom?

You don’t have to push through another round of dates alone. We’ve got you. Join us!